I was talking to some moms today about my perception of myself as a mom. You know how some moms make everything look so easy?! They just seem to take everything in stride...like it's the most natural thing in the world to have a child drinking FROM you, or to spend 90% of your day bending over picking up toys, food, clothes, or an over-sized 1 year old. They must have superhero strength because they seem to be just fine toting a 30 lbs toddler in one arm and a load of groceries int the other. I, on the other hand, make mothering look much harder than it probably is. People probably thought I was trying to nurse an alligator under that blanket, or that my toddler has bricks in his pants, because I can't seem to carry him + groceries without some serious sweat and strain. I constantly get comments from perfect strangers that would suggest that the general public thinks I'm in over my head (with one child). Well, just so you know...it is hard, but I'm not struggling as much as I appear to be struggling. I really enjoy being a mom, even if I look frazzled. In fact, let me just take a minute to brag about our bedtime routine. After we finish up and say "night-night", Duncan now goes into his room all on his own and attempts to crawl into his crib. I help him up, he gives me a kiss good-night and lays down and goes to sleep. 16 months, folks! I would say I'm proud of myself but I don't think I can say that until the bottle works it way out of that routine.
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
It's Easier Than it Looks
I was talking to some moms today about my perception of myself as a mom. You know how some moms make everything look so easy?! They just seem to take everything in stride...like it's the most natural thing in the world to have a child drinking FROM you, or to spend 90% of your day bending over picking up toys, food, clothes, or an over-sized 1 year old. They must have superhero strength because they seem to be just fine toting a 30 lbs toddler in one arm and a load of groceries int the other. I, on the other hand, make mothering look much harder than it probably is. People probably thought I was trying to nurse an alligator under that blanket, or that my toddler has bricks in his pants, because I can't seem to carry him + groceries without some serious sweat and strain. I constantly get comments from perfect strangers that would suggest that the general public thinks I'm in over my head (with one child). Well, just so you know...it is hard, but I'm not struggling as much as I appear to be struggling. I really enjoy being a mom, even if I look frazzled. In fact, let me just take a minute to brag about our bedtime routine. After we finish up and say "night-night", Duncan now goes into his room all on his own and attempts to crawl into his crib. I help him up, he gives me a kiss good-night and lays down and goes to sleep. 16 months, folks! I would say I'm proud of myself but I don't think I can say that until the bottle works it way out of that routine.
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Thursday, May 8, 2008
Down in the Dunks
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Wednesday, May 7, 2008
Chicks Dig Scars

We had our first visit to the E.R. last night. I'm thinking this may have been the first of many. Duncan tripped and hit his head on the door hinge. It gives me the willies just thinking about it. It looked so painful. There was quite a bit of blood and I could tell right away he would need stitches. I was a little worried how I would react in this inevitable first E.R. worthy accident, but I thought I stayed fairly calm. Jimmy might disagree, but all I did was bark out a few orders, not go into hysteria.
Sorry if the picture is little gory. We haven't gotten a good one of the stitched up head, yet. Oh yeah, they did conscience sedation and gave him 4 stitches. The sedation was kind of cool. They squirted fluid up his nostrils that made him really out of it but awake. I asked the nurse if I could get some for the plane. Ha ha...Me...drug my child on a plane? NEVER =) (I just wish it actually worked on him!)
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Thursday, May 1, 2008
So if April Showers Bring May Flowers...What Does May Snow Bring?
Yeah...that's right...we woke up to snow this morning. We were quite upset. But on a lighter note -if you look very closely you can see Duncan's mohawk!!
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